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    Everyday Life

    When You Take A Hiatus On Yourself

    I write.  That much is obvious.  Everyone has something that they love and that they are good at.  But what happens when you turn your back on it?  I have made a point of writing this blog since April.  I took a few online courses.  Made great social media connections.  I even completed a 30 day 30 post challenge in July.  Then I just……stopped.  I took a hiatus without even meaning too.   We can all be quitters. We CAN all be quitters.  I blame part of this on my zodiac sign.  Us Gemini’s are known for being super passionate and creative, but a little flaky.  It’s true.  When things…

  • Everyday Life

    How To Not Lose Your Shit By Tuesday

    Week from hell?  Everyone under 4 feet tall been yelling at you constantly for days?  Significant other, not being exactly helpful or able to take care of themselves?  Work disasters?  Scheduling mishaps?  Being a Mom is hard!How the hell are you going to make it through the week? Here’s some tips for survival. 1.       Buy ear plugs If you can’t hear it, it didn’t happen.  Ignorance really is bliss.  I know for me, my children will flat out run right past my husband, to ask/complain or show me something.  If I can’t hear them, then they aren’t there.  2.       Alcohol.  No one is saying become an alcoholic during the week,…

  • Everyday Life

    It’s Time to Turn 40…….

        I am turning 40 very soon.  Ok there I said it.  OMG yes it is actually happening and I cannot stop it.  Not gonna lie, kinda freaking out.  Like I am almost 40 and really what have I done?! Yes I am a wife and a mother to a gaggle of babies, but what happened to those life changing, world exploding dreams that I had in place?  I do realise that this totally sounds like a mid-life crisis in the making, and I want to try and assure everyone that it is not, but maybe it is!  I had so many wonderful dreams when I was younger, and…

  • Rants

    Stop Allowing Social Media To Dictate Your Parenting!

    I originally wrote this last Summer. It still holds true as a mother so I felt that because this really encompasses many of us, it deserves to be on my blog for sure 🙂   This wine right here; I need this. I deserve this. Hell I fucking earned this today….. After the day that I have had with my children, it is both liberating and sad to come to the actual realization that being a mother fucking sucks. As I was scrubbing shit off of my toilet, bathroom walls, floor and stool, I paused and took a breath. This was the second time cleaning up shit after my six…